A little more recently there was a provocateur of less celebrity who responded to a
discussion he wasn’t part of to object to the characterization of members of his hobbyist
group as “offended.” His exact words were “please point me to these mythical offended”
group members. Now, this is a group known not only for being on the whole utterly
unpleasable, but also for spending more time complaining about their hobby than doing it.
And the person making this objection has made an entire career out of being offended--
this is a man who is best known for harassing a widely-known fan out of the hobby entirely
because he didn’t like the way she dressed. The proposition of this hobbyist group not
being offended is on the face of it ridiculous, being offended is the primary
characterization they are known for.
discussion he wasn’t part of to object to the characterization of members of his hobbyist
group as “offended.” His exact words were “please point me to these mythical offended”
group members. Now, this is a group known not only for being on the whole utterly
unpleasable, but also for spending more time complaining about their hobby than doing it.
And the person making this objection has made an entire career out of being offended--
this is a man who is best known for harassing a widely-known fan out of the hobby entirely
because he didn’t like the way she dressed. The proposition of this hobbyist group not
being offended is on the face of it ridiculous, being offended is the primary
characterization they are known for.
Again, could this be mere cognitive dissonance? I don’t think so. Rather, I think this is a
categorization difference: for this man “offended” is a special category of anger, of which
only the minorities he harasses are capable. He isn’t offended, he’s merely filled with
justified anger so much and so consistently that he can film, edit, and release a video on
a weekly basis about some new part of pop culture that “the SJWs” or “the feminists” or
“the gays” or whoever is using to “ruin something forever”--there’s a gay character in a
card game, or there’s a movie in which a woman is a superhero, or a trans player was
allowed to compete in a game tournament, or a player in a different games tournament
is openly gay. None of these, for him, count as being offended, they’re about how the
existence of people that aren’t in the same category as him in spaces that he regards as
reserved for him, are specific offenses. “Being offended” is what the people whose
presence he’s angry about do when he gets angry at them for being present.
categorization difference: for this man “offended” is a special category of anger, of which
only the minorities he harasses are capable. He isn’t offended, he’s merely filled with
justified anger so much and so consistently that he can film, edit, and release a video on
a weekly basis about some new part of pop culture that “the SJWs” or “the feminists” or
“the gays” or whoever is using to “ruin something forever”--there’s a gay character in a
card game, or there’s a movie in which a woman is a superhero, or a trans player was
allowed to compete in a game tournament, or a player in a different games tournament
is openly gay. None of these, for him, count as being offended, they’re about how the
existence of people that aren’t in the same category as him in spaces that he regards as
reserved for him, are specific offenses. “Being offended” is what the people whose
presence he’s angry about do when he gets angry at them for being present.
So there’s two classes of people: the Elect who are allowed to be in his hobby, and the
Reprobate who aren’t. When the Elect are angry, it’s always justified per se. When the
Reprobate are angry, it’s “being offended” and is always unwarranted. The Elect are, by
definition, incapable of being offended, because offended is just a quality that the
Reprobate always have, and it’s never a reaction to an injustice because nothing that the
Elect could ever do to the Reprobate would ever be unjustified.
Reprobate who aren’t. When the Elect are angry, it’s always justified per se. When the
Reprobate are angry, it’s “being offended” and is always unwarranted. The Elect are, by
definition, incapable of being offended, because offended is just a quality that the
Reprobate always have, and it’s never a reaction to an injustice because nothing that the
Elect could ever do to the Reprobate would ever be unjustified.